For those of you who are living under a rock. The new “it” show on Netflix is called “Orange is the New Black”. I started binge watching it earlier this week (ssshhh, don’t tell Paul, he’ll be pissed at me. Every time he asks what I’ve been doing during the day, I sigh and say “errands” — when he finds out I’ve been watching this without him, I”m gonna be in trouble (Tootie-style from the Facts of Life, trouble!)!
So, I’ve learned (from this made for TV show) that prison is a lot like cancer. Your spouse, family and friends don’t really understand what you’re going through. You need to put on a stiff upper lip to get by. You bond for life with your fellow inmates (err, cancer warriors). When you get out of prison (finish active treatment) everybody is sad to see you go, including yourself b/c you’ve built great bonds with your cancer community, doctors and other survivors — prison/cancer-world has become your norm — your best friends — so to leave that world feels disconcerting. Prison and cancer both rob you of your basics — without you getting a say — yet, you learn to adapt. Survive. Thrive.
Finally, prison, like cancer, will change you. For life. Hopefully for the better…..
Go watch this show and by the time you hit the episode entitled “F*cksgiving” — you’ll understand what I’m talking about.
Enjoy your weekend peeps!