Isabela

Change is afoot in the Sieminski household!

You may have noticed a new face in our family photos from Peter’s birthday party. That is our au pair Isabela.

We welcomed Isabela into our home a few weeks ago. She will be living with us and helping us care for the kids over the next year. Isabela is a 2nd year au pair from Sao Paolo, Brazil. She was in country last year in Vermont just outside of Dartmouth College. We’re so happy she matched with us. She an amazing addition to our family. We love her so much and it’s only been 2 weeks!

Nora just started pre school at Big City Montessori School (BCMS) and she will be there for the next 3 years.

Peter will head off to Little Scouts (the fabulous in-home day care that Nora just graduated from) next September. After a year or two there, he will join his big sis at BCMS.

Over the next couple of weeks/months, I will prep myself mentally and emotionally to return to work. In a perfect world, I’ll ease back in with a part-time job – but there aren’t that many part-time HR jobs out there, so we’ll see. I’m going to take a SHRM review course to brush up on my HR skills (and possibly re-certify with them as a SHRM-SCP) and then start looking for and interviewing for a job. I’m still credentialed as a PHR through HRCI but I’m in suspended status with them until I get my remaining 30 units of continuing education in. I have until July 2018 to get those done.

Apologies for all the HR talk and slang above! The point is, being a stay-at-home mom was super rewarding, but extremely hard work. Lately, I’ve felt suffocated by it all. Carrying the mental load of our home, plus caring for Peter full-time proved to be more than I could handle. I felt like I was falling down on the job for him. My energy is low after the past 5 years I’ve had and I fear he is suffering as a result. So we made the hard decision to bring someone else in to help us out. Someone who is young, with energy to take Peter out on adventures and play dates.

Anyway, this post is about Isabela – my thoughts on throwing in the towel on being a stay-at-home mom, as well as, my fear and simultaneous excitement about returning to work are fodder for another post….

Be sure to press play on the video below – you don’t want to miss this one!

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Peter’s First Trip Around the Sun

A few weeks ago we celebrated Peter’s 1st birthday. It’s incredible to me how quickly this year has flown by. Peter is growing like a weed. He weighs just over 21 pounds (for reference his nearly 3 year old sister weighs 24 pounds! – but she’s a peanut!) and is thriving.

He’s super chill – enduring a daily onslaught of over enthusiastic hugs, kisses and squeezes from Nora. She goes ape sh*t every single time she sees him. Poor guy. I keep telling Nora that he’ll outweigh her before long and he’ll exact his revenge 🙂 But when does reasoning with a toddler ever work?! So she’ll have to learn that lesson the hard way…

Milestone-wise, Peter is a different kid than Nora, and that’s fine. He’s taking his time to find his words and motivate himself to walk. Our pediatrician assures us he’s just perfect and a “boy”. I guess that translates to a bit slower to hit milestones?

Overall, my boy is so happy and smiley. He can keep a giggly game of peek-a-boo going for 15 minutes. And I’m always happy to oblige. There’s no sound on the planet as wonderful as a baby belly laugh.

Below are pics from Peter’s special day. Thank you to all of our friends and family who came out. Especially to Dr. Katz and the Conklyn’s. We felt very honored and humbled to have Dr. Katz celebrate the child whose life he saved. If it weren’t for him, we would not have Peter in our family. I thought that’s unbearable to me.

And to the Conklyn’s – who knew last summer as Katie and I lay in hospital rooms next door to one another going through the same medical experience – what a life long bond would be formed. We can’t wait to continue to watch your miracle boys grow up!

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Pinktober – Enough with the Pinkwashing

It’s that time of year again. Thought I’d throw a little information your way to help you navigate all of the pink washing that’s a’comin’

1 in 8 women will get breast cancer. 30% of those initially diagnosed with early stage disease will go on to become metastatic (aka Stage IV). 4% of newly diagnosed breast cancer patients are Stage IV at initial diagnosis. 113 people die from Stage IV metastatic breast cancer (MBC) each day in the US. There is no cure for Stage IV and only 2-5% of research funding goes to MBC.

What we need is to find a cure for this disease. We don’t need pink mugs, pink scarves and/or pink ribbon keychains.

While some women live for years with Stage IV disease, others do not. Their collective voices aren’t always able to be strong as they’re enduring treatment while simultaneously trying to live life.

It’s up to US to make their voices heard. To demand money be directed toward finding a cure and supporting actual individuals living with metastatic disease.

This year I’ve lost 2 friends to MBC, and their deaths should mean something. I have another 5 friends who are living with MBC and I fear 2 of them will die before long. This is scary and so sad.

Please do me (and every other person you know who’s been diagnosed with breast cancer) a favor, and don’t get sucked into the pink washing. Please ask where the funds for pink products are going. Please research those organizations to see if any of that money actually goes toward patients or research.

I’ll make it easy for you. Below is a list of 4 organizations I think you should give your money and time to, if you’re so inclined. Just skip the rest of the noise….

Breast Cancer Action
Breast Cancer Action is not your average breast cancer organization. We’re fiercely independent and refuse corporate funding from any company that profits from or contributes to breast cancer. That means we can ALWAYS put women’s health first.

We’re focused on achieving health justice for all women living with and at risk of breast cancer. Radical and compassionate, we never shy away from the hard truths. We tell it like it is about breast cancer: 40,000 women die of this devastating disease every year, and we don’t have nearly enough to show for the billions of dollars raised in the name of breast cancer.

BCAction was founded in 1990 by a handful of women who were living with and dying from breast cancer and who demanded answers about their disease. Today, BCAction is a national grassroots organization with members across the country. Together we’re challenging the status quo and working to address and end the breast cancer epidemic.

Metavivor
METAvivor is the only organization in the US that exclusively funds MBC research through a scientific peer-review process. We award research grants to individuals with a clinical or other doctoral degree who are actively engaged in areas of metastatic breast cancer research, and whose proposals show distinct promise in making a difference for the stage 4 breast cancer community.

Our mission is to transition metastatic breast cancer from a terminal diagnosis to a chronic, manageable disease with a decent quality of life.

100% of proceeds from every fundraiser (after event expenses) goes into our research grants.

Breast Cancer Prevention Partners
A science-based advocacy organization that works to prevent breast cancer by eliminating exposure to toxic chemicals and radiation.

BAYS
Bay Area Young Survivors (BAYS) is a support and action group for young women in the SF Bay Area who are living with breast cancer.

Through monthly support group meetings, an online network, and community-building events, BAYS members share information, experiences, and resources. Our goal is to break the isolation of living with breast cancer by providing a community built on compassion, understanding, hope, and inspiration.

Peter is 9 Months Old Today

Whoosh! Time flies! Peter is crawling and pulling himself up on furniture. No rest for the weary in this household!

As you can see from the pics below, this boy loves food and his sister 🙂 He’s going to outweigh her pretty soon.

We moved into new house (still in the city) two weeks ago, I’ll post more about that and the sale of our old house very soon. It’s just been a little hectic with all the packing, unpacking and balancing of kiddos the entire time. So stay tuned for a super fun post very soon.

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Peter is 7 months old!

My love bug is growing so, so fast. He weighs 18lbs and is eating solids like it’s his job. He’s beginning to show signs of crawling (or creeping? I can never keep it straight). In any event, he’s moving around really well on his tummy. 

Nora and Peter are still crazy about one another. Honestly, they can’t get enough of each other. Every morning when Nora wakes up I take Peter into her room and she says “Mama, put Peter in my crib. I move over. I gunna make room for him”. After I lay him next to her she sings songs to him and pets him. It’s truly the most adorable thing on the planet. 

Let’s hope this love fest lasts (knock wood, right?!)


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Ok, it’s been a long while!

For those of you still reading my blog, I do apologize. I’m just crazy busy with two littles and trying to balance my own, adult life.

I’ve been posting my updates to Facebook, Insta and Snapchat; and, as a result I’ve been totally neglecting my blog. 

So let me make it up to you. Below are Peter’s monthly growth pics, plus a few other fun ones thrown in for good measure. 

Nora continues to love her brother with all her might. They’re adorable together. Peter is thriving and the happiest little boy you’ve ever met. 

For the first time in a long while I’ve got a lot on my mind and will try my best to post my deep thoughts here. Not that anyone cares, but it’ll ultimately make me feel better to write and get it out. 

I thought I’d lost my blogging voice – but indeed it’s still here. Just lurking beneath the surface. So, I hope to pay more attention to that inner voice in the coming months. 

Stay tuned! Lucky you…..


Peter’s One Month Old & Pumpkin Patch

Hey everybody!

Well, I missed posting Peter’s one month photo yesterday – agh, such is life with two under two! Better late than never, right?

I can’t believe it’s already been one month. Time is just flying by. Peter’s jaundice is all better and he’s growing like a weed. He weighs 8lbs 10ozs and is 20 inches long. He’s got a touch of baby acne, cradle cap and thrush (damn you pesky hormones!), but he doesn’t seem to be bothered by any of it.

Nora is an amazing big sister. She loves to hold Peter and kiss him. She’s got so much love to give!

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How he really feels about this photo shoot!

This morning Paul played hookey from work for a few hours and we took Nora and Peter to the pumpkin patch in Half Moon Bay. It was a fun morning – but we had to play a little man on man defense as we each tended to a child. As soon as we got to the farm, Peter needed to eat. So I took care of that while Paul entertained Nora. Sadly, we weren’t able to get a family picture — but we did the best we could. Something tells me it’ll be a few years before we get a family picture again! haha!

This weekend we’re having a Sip & See for Peter. We’ll have an open house for a few hours so that friends can drop by to meet Peter. Stay tuned for pictures from that as well as Peter’s newborn photo shoot. xoxo

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